21 Questions To Ask A Girl | Deep | Flirty | Romantic | Personal | Laugh 2024

Everyone runs out of topics, especially guys when it comes to conversations with girls, no matter how experienced you are with ladies.

Here are some of the best 21 questions to ask a girl, whether you have known her for a while or you both just met.

Moreover, 21 questions game is one the best way to engage a girl in a conversation by asking the right questions.

Choose the right set of questions or topics you like that you wanna know about your love interest or friends without being awkward.

Just keep in mind that the questions you ask are fun and unique but avoid questions with yes or no responses (open-ended questions).

21 Deep Questions To Ask A Girl

1. What’s your “and then it got worse” story?
2. If you were an action figure, what accessories would you be sold with?
3. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done for love?
4. What snack can you just not get enough of?
5. Is flirting cheating?
6. What do you most look forward to about getting old?
7. What weird smell do you really enjoy?
8. What’s the best practical joke you’ve pulled or seen pulled?
9. What are you most grateful for?
10. When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried?
11. What would you do if your parents didn’t like your partner?
12. What do you wish you had more time for?
13. What is your ideal meal?
14. What’s the biggest lie that a guy has told you?
15. What was the worst phase you went through in life?
16. What or who would you sacrifice your life for?
17. Do you think the future will be better than the present? Why?
18. Do you think human morality is learned or innate?
19. What’s the most crucial thing for a healthy relationship?
20. What lies do you most often tell yourself?
21. What keeps you up at night?

21 Romantic Questions To Ask A Girl

1. Do you like big displays of affection? 
2. When was your first kiss?
3. What is your favorite flower? 
4. What song do you wish was written about you?
5. What’s your favorite date night movie? 
6. Do you believe in soul mates?
7. Who was your first crush?
8. How do you know when you’re in love?
9. How can I know if you want more or less physical intimacy? 
10. How can I show you, love? 
11. What’s your love language? 
12. Do you think public proposals are romantic?
13. What would make you feel loved and cared for by me? 
14. Are relationships meant to last forever?
15. What makes you feel s*xy?
16. What is the hottest thing a lover can wear?
17. What was your first sexual experience like?
18. Who usually says ‘I love you’ first in your relationships?
19. What’s your ideal Valentine’s Day?
20. What’s your idea of a romantic date? 
21. What do I do that triggers you? (dirty minded)

21 Questions To Ask A Girl To Get To Know Her

1. Where did you grow up?
2. What decade do you feel you most belong in?
3. What’s your favorite place to run away to?
4. What is your favorite non-physical attribute about yourself?
5. What do you do to cheer yourself up?
6. Do you believe in love at first sight?
7. How do you like to receive love?
8. Who knows you best?
9. What are you most attracted to in a guy?
10. What makes you laugh more than anything?
11. Are you a morning or night person?
12. If you had one day left to live, what would you do first?
13. How seriously do you take horoscopes?
14. Have you ever been in love? How many times?
15. What do you find most attractive about each s*x?
16. What was the last thing that made you cry?
17. What was the last thing that made you laugh?
18. What is your biggest fear?
19. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
20. What’s your favorite joke?
21. If you could be any animal, what animal would you be?

21 Personal Questions To Ask A Girl

1. Do you like making decisions?
2. What is the strangest habit you have?
3. How would you like to be perceived by other people?
4. Do you like spending time alone?
5. What is the most embarrassing thing you own?
6. What do you hope you grow out of?
7. What is the biggest change you’ve ever made?
8. What moment from your life would you love to relive?
9. What is the healthiest and unhealthiest thing you do regularly?
10. Do you keep in touch with your exes?
11. Have you ever been arrested?
12. Who or what inspires you to be a better person?
13. What was the worst date that you’ve been on?
14. Do you have an addictive personality?
15. Do you keep a journal or a diary?
16. What brings you the most joy in life?
17. Are you good at keeping secrets?
18. What are some things you would like to achieve before you die?
19. What is the best advice your parents ever gave you?
20. What dumb thing did you believe for a really long time?
21. What is the most frightening thing you have ever done?

21 Questions To Ask A Girl You Like

1. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
2. What motivates you the most?
3. What’s your favorite 80’s song?
4. Do you prefer a ripped body or a dad-bod?
5. Who in your life makes you laugh the hardest?
6. What’s your favorite thing about being a girl?
7. Have you ever been on a blind date that was successful?
8. What makes you feel the most awkward?
9. What’s something you’re really bad at?
10. Have you ever been walked in on n*ked?
11. What’s the most outrageous outfit you’ve ever worn?
12. What are the things I do that you appreciate?
13. What are the things I do that annoy you?
14. What’s the first thing that came to your mind the first time you saw me?
15. How do you think we would fare in a long distance relationship?
16. What makes you smile about us?
17. When was your last serious relationship?
18. Who was your first true love?
19. What’s the craziest dare you’ve ever done?
20. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told?
21. What’s the most un-lady-like thing you’ve ever done?

21 Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl To Make Her Laugh

1. You drive me a little crazy; you know that?
2. What’s your funniest dating story?
3. You know you’re amazing.
4. What are your favorite pet names?
5. What’s the quickest way to your heart?
6. Do you get butterflies when you fall in love?
7. What are your biggest turn-ons?
8. What do you fantasize about?
9. Have you ever been n@ked in public?
10. What type of flirting do you like most?
11. Where’s the strangest place you’ve had s*x?
12. Who’s your biggest celebrity crush?
13. What’s your guilty pleasure?
14. What’s your favorite daydream to have?
15. Have you ever had a one night stand?
16. Are you a shower or bath kind of girl?
17. Has anyone ever called you a good kisser?
18. Have you ever skinny dipped?
19. What’s your opinion on kissing in public?
20. Do you prefer boxers or briefs on a guy?
21. What are you most attracted to in a guy?

21 Questions To Ask A Girl Crush

1. If you were in a relationship right now, who would your celebrity pass be?
2. What’s the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?
3. How would you define s*x appeal?
4. Do you consider yourself a good kisser?
5. What’s something unexpected that you find attractive?
6. Do you prefer other people to make the first move?
7. What do your friends know about me?
8. Are you interested in anyone right now?
9. When am I seeing you next?
10. What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
11. In what ways do you think we’re similar?
12. Do you have any tattoos?
13. Do people trust you to keep secrets?
14. Have you ever been cheated on?
15. What’s the worst thing about dating today?
16. What’s your relationship to religion?
17. What movie best describes your life?
18. What do you like to do for fun?
19. How would your friends describe you?
20. What is your most unique talent?
21. What’s the best trip you’ve ever been on?

21 Questions To Ask A Girl Over Text

1. Where did you learn to be so pretty?
2. Do you think I am romantic?
3. In one sentence, how would you sum up romance?
4. Have you ever flirted with a guy?
5. Who was your first teacher crush?
6. How do you know when you love someone?
7. Is there anything you find irresistible about me?
8. How do you like your boyfriend to be dressed?
9. What is the perfect way to ask someone out?
10. What do you think is our current relationship status?
11. How do you feel cared for by a guy?
12. Who is important? Dream guy or fame?
13. Would you give up sleep for a date?
14. Would you rather wake up tomorrow as the opposite s*x or 50 years older?
15. Is there any food you would give up your relationship for?
16. What’s the funniest thing you did on a date?
17. What is your idea of a picture-perfect date?
18. What’s your new year’s resolution?
19. What are you wearing right now?
20. Can I have you for my midnight snack?
21. Facetime me. I need your smile to brighten my day.

21 Questions To Ask A Girl In A Relationship

1. Do you like to plan dates or would you prefer that I planned more dates?
2. Where have you always wanted to go with me?
3. What is something you could never forgive in a relationship?
4. What class would you love to take together?
5. What bad habit do you wish I would quit?
6. What one thing can I do to improve our relationship?
7. Do we communicate enough?
8. Do we spend enough time together?
9. Do we resolve our issues respectfully?
10. Are you satisfied with our s*x life?
11. What is your favorite part of our relationship?
12. Do you dream about me?
13. Where would you ideally like to spend the holidays?
14. Is there anything I can do to make you feel more loved?
15. If we broke up tomorrow, what would you do?
16. What feels hard in your life right now?
17. How can we avoid arguing?
18. What do you want our next date night to look like?
19. What can I do to make you feel more appreciated?
20. What is a bad habit I have that I should work on?
21. Where do you see us five years from now?

21 Questions To Ask A Girl You Just Met

1. What’s your favorite movie or movie genre?
2. What’s your favorite sport?
3. What are some fun things to do in your city?
4. What do you like to do when you have free time?
5. What’s something you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t?
6. What qualities do you like in a friend?
7. What are some things you always try to buy locally?
8. Do you have any siblings?
9. What’s a fun thing you used to do as a kid?
10. Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?
11. What’s your favorite kind of food?
12. Do you like concerts?
13. What do you look for in a guy you date?
14. Are you looking for a relationship?
15. What’s the worst experience you’ve had with an ex?
16. Do you have a type when you date?
17. Do you like reading?
18. How would you define life?
19. Would you like to hang out sometime?
20. What upsets you the most?
21. What is your best place on the planet?

21 Questions To Ask A Girl Friend

1. Have you ever been in love?
2. What is the most attractive quality in a man/woman?
3. What did your past relationship teach you?
4. Would you ever take somebody back who cheated on you? 
5. What is a relationship deal-breaker for you?
6. Do you ever want to have a family of your own someday?
7. Which is more romantic: flowers and gifts or a candlelit meal?
8. What’s the best advice an older person has ever given you about relationships?
9. How do you get over heartbreak?
10. How old were you when you had your first boyfriend/girlfriend?
11. What is the longest relationship you’ve been in? 
12. What’s the most annoying trait I have?
13. What attracts you to people? 
14. What is the most fun memory we’ve had during our friendship? 
15. What’s your favorite corny joke?
16. What is the weirdest fact you know?
17. What is the strangest joke someone has asked you? 
18. What is the most fruitless talent you have? 
19. Do you think penguins have knees?
20. What’s the silliest way you’ve accidentally injured yourself?
21. Why is it called lipstick if it doesn’t stick your lips together?

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